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Exploring the Unconventional Path: A Reflection on Oxford and Personal Growth

Written by: on September 1, 2023

In his book, The History of Oxford, Paul Sullivan presents a collection of narratives that question the perception of Oxford as a stronghold of tradition and prestige. Through his stories Sullivan exposes a city filled with peculiarities and paradoxes mirroring the experiences of those who traverse its streets.

As I prepared to visit Oxford, not as a student enrolled there but as an eager learner, I reflected on my academic journey. Unlike many of Oxford’s famed alumni (including a plethora of British Prime Ministers), my educational path did not begin in prestigious institutions. Yet, my achievements, including a 3.98 GPA in my master’s program, stand as testaments to the belief that it’s not where you study, but how you harness the experience.

Given its long standing walls and rich history, Oxford may appear to be an unexpected location for someone like myself who embraces change and fresh concepts. However, Sullivan’s book uncovers the hidden aspects of Oxford’s past, demonstrating that it is not only a place of tradition but also filled with peculiarities and extraordinary stories. From the founder who met a tragic fate at the hands of wolves (allegedly) to the incident involving a stolen unicorn horn, these tales strongly resonate with my personal aversion towards conformism and my delight for unconventional ideas.

Walking through Oxford, I was reminded of the key message that it’s not the place that makes you, but you that make the place. Oxford’s prestige does not define my learning experience; rather, my curiosity and willingness bring my contemporary way of learning into the three-foot granite walls.

To delve deeper into this topic I recommend reading The Road to Oxbridge; Reflections on Education and Privilege, by James A. Morone. In his book Morone explores the captivating allure and exclusive nature of Oxford and Cambridge universities. He delves into how these institutions have influenced society’s perception of success and privilege. Personally I believe that while Oxford symbolizes a form of achievement true success lies in challenging societal norms and embracing change.

My visit to Oxford transcends just touring a renowned university. It’s a personal validation of learning through unorthodox avenues. As I wandered where countless eminent personalities have before, I’m not overawed, rather, I’m stirred. The old edifices around me, rather than being relics of an exclusive past, stand as emblems of the continual growth of knowledge.

The storied tradition of Oxford in shaping leaders and intellectuals is remarkable. However, it’s the lesser-known, unearthed stories that Paul Sullivan highlights that truly enchant me. These accounts demonstrate that Oxford, similar to any other place of learning, isn’t merely a forge of success; it’s a tapestry rich in varied stories and backgrounds.

My time in Oxford was not spent in lecture halls, but in the thatcher roofed houses, gardens, and corridors where history whispers from every corner. I am reminded that education is not confined within the walls of an institution; it is a lifelong journey that takes us to places we never imagined.

Not a day went by that I wasn’t reminded of the power of places like Oxford to inspire and challenge. Yet, my story, different from the traditional narrative, adds a unique piece of the story to the university’s history. It is a reminder that success is not a destination but a journey, and prestige is not a prerequisite for profound learning and personal growth.

This trip to Oxford was an exploration of how thinking outside the box can lead to deep learning and personal development. It highlights that while prestigious institutions like Oxford have a history and strong traditions true education lies in the relentless pursuit of knowledge and the bravery to carve ones own path. This experience has shown me that embracing my journey with all its ups and downs is not only valid but also valuable. It serves as a testament, to the notion that it’s not where you are but who you are that truly matters in shaping your environment.

 

About the Author

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Mathieu Yuill

While raindrops on roses and whiskers on kittens may be a few of Julia Andrews' favourite things, here are a few of mine: Talking to strangers, Learning about what you do for fun, Conversation over coffee. I own a marketing and communications company in Toronto, Canada called Leading With Nice. There are a lot of names I could have given the company but a trusted friend encouraged me to name it that because I really value the humanness in us all. Bah - this is starting to sound like a horrible LinkedIn post. So whatever, let's have coffee. I'd love to hear about what you do for fun!

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