{"id":40262,"date":"2025-01-28T14:04:43","date_gmt":"2025-01-28T22:04:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/?p=40262"},"modified":"2025-01-28T14:04:43","modified_gmt":"2025-01-28T22:04:43","slug":"the-flower","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/the-flower\/","title":{"rendered":"The Flower"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This has been a hard week to work in the world of immigration. To put it bluntly, I am exhausted and weary. Executive Orders regarding immigration seem to be coming at lightning speed and it is challenging to stay on top of them. Add this to barrage of needs and requests and it feels a bit overwhelming. The heaviest weight of the week though comes from Christians who insist on defending indefensible actions from a Christian perspective.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>How do we lead in hard times? Some leaders choose to be angry about everything and be loud all the time. Some leaders choose to ignore the world around them and stay focused on the small world around them they can control. I don\u2019t want to fall into either extreme. I want to be the one who is willing and able to speak up when a voice is needed but at the same time, I don\u2019t think my voice is the one needed every time. So, when we do choose to speak out? This week I have chosen to speak out.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>In the reading this week I was reminded, &#8220;To be effective in a multicultural, multinational, globalized world, leaders must be agile and realize that their first job is to find out what&#8217;s going on in their own context and make sense of it!&#8221;<a href=\"#_ftn1\" name=\"_ftnref1\">[1]<\/a> This was great advice and I don\u2019t know if I was already doing this before I read it or if reading it changed what I was doing. When the Executive Orders came out, I sought out my local contacts who could fill me in on what this meant for our community. In our community alone, forty-five recently arrived (legal and vetted) refugees had their money that was promised to them taken away leaving them without a job, or the ability to pay rent. Taking in all the information I was able to discern quite readily how this will affect us locally and how many families need others to stand in the gap.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>A second lesson learned from this reading is to approach the situation with humility. I have had so many Christians want to argue with me about fiscal responsibility while neglecting responsibility of caring for the least of these. The author writes, &#8220;humility is powerful because it allows you to treat others well and with respect. Humility is real, not perfect. It inspires trust and helps to build bridges as you try to connect the dots between who you were, who you are, and who you are becoming.&#8221;<a href=\"#_ftn2\" name=\"_ftnref2\">[2]<\/a> Am I willing to approach each interaction with the humility it needs? I hope so, but I am wearing thin. I am reminded of the need for grit. Duckworth writes, &#8220;Grit has two components: passion and perseverance.&#8221;<a href=\"#_ftn3\" name=\"_ftnref3\">[3]<\/a> I have the passion. This week I need the perseverance.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>For grit to sustain me over the long-haul, and I do see this being a long-haul I realize the need for margin. There is a need to balance work-life and home-life even when much of work-life happens from the home. Thankfully, when I left Kenya a few years ago I realized the need to keep margin in my life and to keep myself from falling into the American trap of structing every hour of my day. One of the articles states, &#8220;I discovered margin is the space between my load and my limits. Its significance lies in its purpose: a space for relationships.&#8221;<a href=\"#_ftn4\" name=\"_ftnref4\">[4]<\/a> Since I had already built margin into my schedule, I am able to fill it this week with building relationships. I am meeting with a few of those people who might disagree with me and disagree with the topic I am choosing to be vocal about. It almost seems that if I disagree and am vocal against something our President does then it is a personal attack against themselves. There seems to be something inherent about Trump supporters and the need to defend him for each decision he makes.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>One of the brilliant aspects of this book was the artwork and pictures of nature interspersed throughout the articles. I find it is always helpful for me to get outside and see God\u2019s beauty in everything around me when I get stressed. Hutchinson adds that it is a helpful way to manage burnout and mental acuity.<a href=\"#_ftn5\" name=\"_ftnref5\">[5]<\/a> This is why I garden. Being in my garden helps me find creative ways to play in the dirt and watch the beauty of a flower unfold. The challenge I find myself in right now is my garden is frozen over. Though my garden is a frozen tundra, the artwork presented was simplistic and a reminder that I can find beauty in even the smallest things if I take the time to notice. As I wrap up this busy day, I want to take the time to notice them.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/IMG_6247-rotated.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-40263\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/IMG_6247-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/IMG_6247-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/IMG_6247-150x200.jpg 150w, https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/IMG_6247-300x400.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/IMG_6247-rotated.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>_________________________________________________________________<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref1\" name=\"_ftn1\">[1]<\/a> \u201cIlluminaire,\u201d <em>Illuminaire<\/em>, 2024, 29.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref2\" name=\"_ftn2\">[2]<\/a> \u201cIlluminaire,\u201d 44.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref3\" name=\"_ftn3\">[3]<\/a> Angela Duckworth, <em>Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance<\/em>, First Scribner trade paperback edition (New York London Toronto Sydney New Delhi: Scribner, 2018), 56.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref4\" name=\"_ftn4\">[4]<\/a> \u201cIlluminaire,\u201d 78.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref5\" name=\"_ftn5\">[5]<\/a> \u201cIlluminaire,\u201d 55.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This has been a hard week to work in the world of immigration. 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