{"id":38736,"date":"2024-10-14T09:00:35","date_gmt":"2024-10-14T16:00:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/?p=38736"},"modified":"2024-10-09T08:15:45","modified_gmt":"2024-10-09T15:15:45","slug":"gen-z-needs-us","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/gen-z-needs-us\/","title":{"rendered":"Gen Z Needs Us!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Social psychologist Jonathon Haidt has written a timely book with an urgent message. I&#8217;m grateful for the opportunity to read <em>The Anxious Mind<\/em> and will pass it on to my now-adult children. I&#8217;d like to think my kids escaped what Haidt describes as the &#8220;great rewiring.&#8221; Though my kids didn&#8217;t have access to smartphones until college, and only my youngest is considered Gen Z, I&#8217;m among the anxious parents who began raising children in the mid-1980s. I felt overwhelmed trying to keep up with all the new technologies, the internet, and social media websites my kids were engaging with, first at school and then at home. Is it too late to contribute to the solution?<\/p>\n<p>Because my children were born and raised in Southeast Asia, I had numerous unfamiliar situations to navigate and consider. But I remember vividly the day in 2006 when the tiny flip phone became a huge topic among my middle and high school-age children. After much debate, I acquiesced, and they received their coveted flip phones. My justification was primarily to give them more freedom and me some peace of mind as they made their way around a city of 8 million people. Fast forward nearly 20 years, and I still struggle to keep up. I&#8217;m dismayed by how much time we spend on devices. Yet, I&#8217;m grateful our smartphones keep us connected now that we&#8217;re spread all over the globe. However, regardless of age and in an era of mounting addictions, I fear the impact smartphones and other devices have on us all, especially our children. A frequent topic in my counseling office is the challenge of managing smartphones, the internet, apps, and social media in an effort to improve mental health and personal relationships.<\/p>\n<p>Jonathon Haidt identifies two plotlines that contribute to the &#8220;great rewiring&#8221; of the Gen Z brain. The first is the rapid changes in technology beginning with the new millennium. Haidt writes, &#8220;Gen Z became the first generation in history to go through puberty with a portal in their pockets.&#8221; This phenomenon led to less time playing and interacting with friends and family while opening a world of unsuitable information and stimuli. These factors negatively impact their developing brains and, among other things, their ability to focus and develop healthy social and relationship skills.<a name=\"_ftnref1\"><\/a><a href=\"#_ftn1\">[1]<\/a> Because of the rapid changes in the brain, puberty is an especially vulnerable time. Haidt outlines the second plotline as beginning much earlier when, in the 1980s, a generation of parents who wanted to safeguard their children became over-protective and thus gave way to a generational shift from a &#8220;play-based childhood&#8221; to a &#8220;phone-based childhood.&#8221;<a name=\"_ftnref2\"><\/a><a href=\"#_ftn2\">[2]<\/a> The added stressors induced by a &#8220;phone-based&#8221; childhood leave adolescents more susceptible to mental health disorders, including generalized anxiety disorder.<a name=\"_ftnref3\"><\/a><a href=\"#_ftn3\">[3]<\/a> Haidt has practical suggestions for a course correction highlighting four foundational reforms and suggests parents take the lead and band together.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>No smartphones before high school<\/li>\n<li>No social media before age 16<\/li>\n<li>Phone-free schools<\/li>\n<li>Far more unsupervised play<a name=\"_ftnref4\"><\/a><a href=\"#_ftn4\">[4]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>I found it fascinating that as an atheist, Haidt points out, &#8220;The phone-based life produces spiritual degradation, not just in adolescents, but in all of us.&#8221;<a name=\"_ftnref5\"><\/a><a href=\"#_ftn5\">[5]<\/a> He identifies six spiritual practices that help mitigate the impact of life lived on devices, all of which scripture supports.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Shared sacredness<\/li>\n<li>Embodiment<\/li>\n<li>Stillness, silence, and focus<\/li>\n<li>Self-transcendence<\/li>\n<li>Being slow to anger and quick to forgive<\/li>\n<li>Finding awe in nature<a name=\"_ftnref6\"><\/a><a href=\"#_ftn6\">[6]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>I find a connection to Gratton and Scott&#8217;s <em>The 100-Year Life<\/em>. Given the possibility of living longer, I wonder how Gen Z will manage, given the developmental disruptions smart devices have created in early life. Gratton and Scott identified a loss that may have contributed to the events leading to the &#8220;great rewiring.&#8221; They note how the loss of multi-generation living in Western cultures has resulted in segregation of the ages, representing a major societal shift between 1910 and 1980.<a name=\"_ftnref7\"><\/a><a href=\"#_ftn7\">[7]<\/a> I&#8217;ve seen the benefits of multi-generational living in Southeast Asia. I lovingly recall the days I regularly visited my grandparents as a child, adolescent, and adult, as well as the three years I worked in a retirement home. The impact of elders is significant, particularly regarding mental health and spiritual formation. I remember Peter Northouse highlighted the work of Dr. Dixon Chibanda in case study 8.3 <em>Grandmothers and Benches<\/em>.<a name=\"_ftnref8\"><\/a><a href=\"#_ftn8\">[8]<\/a> Chibanda&#8217;s clinical trial showed that grandmothers were more effective at treating depression than doctors.<a name=\"_ftnref9\"><\/a><a href=\"#_ftn9\">[9]<\/a> I wonder how we, as elders living a multi-stage life, might find purpose through developing deeper bonds with younger generations.<\/p>\n<p>While writing this blog, I received several notifications. One was a blog post entitled <em>&#8220;Part One: Why Gen Z Needs Elders.&#8221;<\/em><a name=\"_ftnref10\"><\/a><a href=\"#_ftn10\">[<\/a><a href=\"#_ftn10\">10]<\/a> While chagrined that I left my notifications on, I&#8217;m glad that one grabbed my attention. For those of us who are baby boomers and understand how easily we get distracted by our devices yet still remember the freedoms we experienced as children, might we be part of the solution Haidt suggests? In his book <em>On the Brink of Everything, <\/em>Parker Palmer says that when the young and old connect, they &#8220;generate energy for personal and social change that an age-segregated society cuts off.&#8221;<a name=\"_ftnref11\"><\/a><a href=\"#_ftn11\">[11]<\/a> Palmer advocates for mentoring relationships, discovering that the old and the young learn from each other. I wonder if both might feel less isolated and alone in a world that doesn&#8217;t quite understand their needs.<\/p>\n<p>The words of Jonathon Haidt&#8217;s daughter astonished me, &#8220;Daddy, can you take the iPad away from me? I&#8217;m trying to take my eyes off of it, but I can&#8217;t.&#8221;<a name=\"_ftnref12\"><\/a><a href=\"#_ftn12\">[12]<\/a>Her cry for help is insightful, and her experience is relatable to all of us. I believe Gen Z is looking for a different way to live apart from the empty world of their screens. They just might not know it yet. Maybe, as elders, we need to put our smartphones down first. It&#8217;s incredible to look up and notice what we&#8217;re missing! Invitations to play, go outdoors, converse, listen, learn, and wonder together are experiences we all need. By extending these invitations, we just might make a difference for the Gen Zs among us and add to our already increasing lifespan.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a name=\"_ftn1\"><\/a><a href=\"#_ftnref1\">[1]<\/a> Jonathon Haidt, <em>The Anxious Generation: How the Great Rewiring of Childhood Is Causing an Epidemic of Mental Illness <\/em>(Penguin Press: New York, 2024), 5-6.<\/p>\n<p><a name=\"_ftn2\"><\/a><a href=\"#_ftnref2\">[2]<\/a> Haidt, <em>The Anxious Generation, <\/em>7.<\/p>\n<p><a name=\"_ftn3\"><\/a><a href=\"#_ftnref3\">[3]<\/a> Ibid., 97.<\/p>\n<p><a name=\"_ftn4\"><\/a><a href=\"#_ftnref4\">[4]<\/a> Ibid., 290.<\/p>\n<p><a name=\"_ftn5\"><\/a><a href=\"#_ftnref5\">[5]<\/a> Ibid., 199.<\/p>\n<p><a name=\"_ftn6\"><\/a><a href=\"#_ftnref6\">[6]<\/a> Ibid., 202.<\/p>\n<p><a name=\"_ftn7\"><\/a><a href=\"#_ftnref7\">[7]<\/a> Lynda Gratton and Andrew J. Scott <em>The 100 Year-Life: Living and Working in the Age of Longevity <\/em>(Bloomsbury: London, UK, 2020), 275-276.<\/p>\n<p><a name=\"_ftn8\"><\/a><a href=\"#_ftnref8\">[8]<\/a> Peter C. Northouse, <em>Leadership: Theory &amp; Practice Ninth Edition <\/em>(Los Angeles, CA: SAGE, 2022), 213-216.<\/p>\n<p><a name=\"_ftn9\"><\/a><a href=\"#_ftnref9\">[9]<\/a> Chibanda, Dixon. 2017. TEDWomen 2017. November 2017.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/dixon_chibanda_why_i_train_grandmothers_to_treat_depression\">https:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/dixon_chibanda_why_i_train_grandmothers_to_treat_depression<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a name=\"_ftn10\"><\/a><a href=\"#_ftnref10\">[10]<\/a> Ploegstra, Hannah. 2024.&#8221; Part One: Why Gen Z Needs Elders.&#8221; <em>Life Model <\/em>(Blog) Life Model Works, October 6, 2024.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/mailchi.mp\/lifemodelworks.org\/why-gen-z-needs-elders?e=15ed5edff0\">https:\/\/mailchi.mp\/lifemodelworks.org\/why-gen-z-needs-elders?e=15ed5edff0<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a name=\"_ftn11\"><\/a><a href=\"#_ftnref11\">[11]<\/a> Parker Palmer, <em>On the Brink of Everything: Grace, Gravity &amp; Getting Old <\/em>Berrett-Koehler: Oakland, CA, 2018), 31.<\/p>\n<p><a name=\"_ftn12\"><\/a><a href=\"#_ftnref12\">[12]<\/a> Haidt, <em>The Anxious Generation, <\/em>142.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Social psychologist Jonathon Haidt has written a timely book with an urgent message. 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