{"id":37291,"date":"2024-04-08T10:22:11","date_gmt":"2024-04-08T17:22:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/?p=37291"},"modified":"2024-04-08T10:22:11","modified_gmt":"2024-04-08T17:22:11","slug":"the-secrets-the-dead-whisper-in-my-ear","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/the-secrets-the-dead-whisper-in-my-ear\/","title":{"rendered":"The Secrets the Dead Whisper in my Ear&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">A Good Kill?\u00a0 A Good Death? They are connected and cannot be severed in my mind.\u00a0 A Bad Kill, a good death? A good kill, a bad death?\u00a0 It seems to me that Just war is in the nuance of those connections. For myself sitting in my lovely home, writing a doctoral blog on an intelligent book with a full tummy and all my needs met is privilege and makes thinking on war abstract, though we\u2019ve all lived through war, with some of us affected more personally than others. With every good kill, regardless of if it\u2019s just, or bad or wrong, there is a life that has ended. A person with parents, someone who loves or loved them, a soul created in the image of God behind that kill.\u00a0 I just want to say it and put that out there with courage. This book is about death (says the hospice chaplain).<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u00a0While reading Marc LiVecches\u2019 book <em>The Good Kill<\/em>, the phrase \u201cMoral Injury\u201d stood out to me.\u00a0 I have heard this phrase and felt it in the post-pandemic world in healthcare.\u00a0 I have haunting thoughts of walking through the hallways of facilities with all of us clinicians wearing reused N-95 masks and full gowns and gloves and coming out of the facilities whipping that mask off only to feel the scabbed sore on the bridge of the nose rubbed raw.\u00a0 Facilitating video calls with families as their loved one lay dying alone.\u00a0 This is trauma, this is moral injury and if you are wondering about healthcare and why so many places are short staffed, I believe it\u2019s due to this moral injury.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">LiVecches definition of Moral injury has been noted to be similar to \u201cBrett Litz&#8217;s definition of &#8216;the lasting psychological, biological, spiritual, behavioural, and social impact of perpetrating, failing to prevent, or bearing witness to acts that transgress deeply held moral beliefs and expectations\u201d.<a href=\"\/\/F44ADC7F-0427-49AB-9FCF-2FF68D11A8CA#_ftn1\" name=\"_ftnref1\">[1]<\/a>\u00a0 We have long known the effects of war have long-lasting impact on those who serve.\u00a0 My grandfather was in a tank in the second wave of the battle of the bulge.\u00a0 He hardly ever spoke on the war but someone in the family was able to hear from him before he died that he had deep trauma from after the war when he was asked to stay back and translate the interrogations as he was fluent in German.\u00a0 He said he saw awful things being done to another human being.\u00a0 I can\u2019t imagine what he carried to the grave.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">I also have had many veteran patients who at end of life need to tell someone what they experience and ask for forgiveness.\u00a0 I\u2019ve had a life long strong Catholic man in tears tell me a secret of knowing he has shot a villager woman as he was strafing a pathway for his fellow soldiers.\u00a0 This would be called collateral damage, and I believe he held that secret his whole life and he died having told one person.\u00a0 I have preached here before that those secrets, those moral injuries we experience cannot stay shoved down to your own death, they will find a way out.\u00a0 In the case of number of vets, it is not being able to re-enter in life pre-enlistment or pre-draft, its turning to addictions and mental illness.\u00a0 I almost hesitate to write this statement, but I see our healthcare workers and I\u2019d wager law enforcement and first responders headed towards a similar PTSD moral injury space.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">LiVecche bravely takes on making distinctions between moral injury and our connection to how we see the need for certain types of war and connecting it to love.\u00a0 He states \u201cTo link this moral vision to moral injury, I will draw on the classical imagination of C. S. Lewis and draft a portrait of the just warrior as a marbling of the characteristics of Venus and Mars\u2014the personifications of love and war, respectively. Such a union of dispositions demonstrates the possibility of attending to both the necessity of war and the requirements of love without contradiction.\u201d<a href=\"\/\/F44ADC7F-0427-49AB-9FCF-2FF68D11A8CA#_ftn2\" name=\"_ftnref2\">[2]<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">Once again, I am left to finish a topic such as this torn. On one hand I believe in the statement \u201call it takes for evil to endure is for good men to stand by and do nothing\u201d. <a href=\"\/\/F44ADC7F-0427-49AB-9FCF-2FF68D11A8CA#_ftn3\" name=\"_ftnref3\">[3]<\/a> And on a slightly stronger side I believe we need to fight for peace.\u00a0 Now I know I used the word fight which I think illustrates LiVecches\u2019 point, that there is a morality to fight for what is right, and what is more just than peace. Ugh! Around and around, we go.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">Let me whisper in your ear a blessing for peace!<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">FOR PEACE<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">As the fever of day calms towards twilight<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">May all that is strained in us come to ease.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">We pray for all who suffered violence today,<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">May an unexpected serenity surprise them.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">For those who risk their lives each day for peace,<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">May their hearts glimpse providence at the heart of history.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">That those who make riches from violence and war<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">Might hear in their dreams the cries of the lost.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">That we might see through our fear of each other<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">A new vision to heal our fatal attraction to aggression.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">That those who enjoy the privilege of peace<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">Might not forget their tormented brothers and sisters.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">That the wolf might lie down with the lamb,<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">That our swords be beaten into ploughshares<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">And no hurt or harm be done<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">Anywhere along the holy mountain.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\"><a href=\"https:\/\/johnodonohue.com\/\">John O&#8217;Donohue<\/a>, Irish poet and philosopher<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">From the book, Benedictus<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400\">\n<p><a href=\"\/\/F44ADC7F-0427-49AB-9FCF-2FF68D11A8CA#_ftnref1\" name=\"_ftn1\">[1]<\/a> Hawksley, Theodora. Book Review of <em>The Good Kill: Just War and Moral Injury. <\/em>\u00a0https:\/\/journals.sagepub.com\/doi\/10.1177\/09539468231154778d?icid=int.sj-full-text.similar-articles.7<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"\/\/F44ADC7F-0427-49AB-9FCF-2FF68D11A8CA#_ftnref2\" name=\"_ftn2\">[2]<\/a> LiVecche, Marc, and Timothy S. Mallard,\u00a0<em>The Good Kill: Just War and Moral Injury<\/em>\u00a0(New York,\u00a02021;\u00a0online edn,\u00a0Oxford Academic, 22 Apr. 2021),\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/doi-org.georgefox.idm.oclc.org\/10.1093\/oso\/9780197515808.001.0001\">https:\/\/doi-org.georgefox.idm.oclc.org\/10.1093\/oso\/9780197515808.001.0001<\/a>,\u00a0accessed 26 Mar. 2024.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"\/\/F44ADC7F-0427-49AB-9FCF-2FF68D11A8CA#_ftnref3\" name=\"_ftn3\">[3]<\/a> Quote attributed to John Stuart Mill, https:\/\/www.openculture.com\/2016\/03\/edmund-burkeon-in-action.html<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A Good Kill?\u00a0 A Good Death? 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