{"id":34231,"date":"2023-11-18T15:36:00","date_gmt":"2023-11-18T23:36:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/?p=34231"},"modified":"2023-11-18T15:43:23","modified_gmt":"2023-11-18T23:43:23","slug":"these-are-the-stories-of-our-lives","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/these-are-the-stories-of-our-lives\/","title":{"rendered":"These are the Stories of Our Lives"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In his 1999 academic text <em>Maps of Meaning, <\/em>professor Jordan Peterson from the University of Toronto, sets out to explore how human beings use story (or myths, as he refers to them) to make decisions, give meaning to their lives, and help them understand their place within culture. \u00a0He states, \u201cIt is therefore the case that our maps of the world contain what might be regarded as two distinct types of information: sensory and affective. It is not enough to know that something <em>is<\/em>. It is equally necessary to know what it <em>signifies<\/em>.\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn1\" name=\"_ftnref1\">[1]<\/a><\/p>\n<p>When the book was written 25 years ago, it was ahead of its time, as now this is a common viewpoint of psychologists. It also has significant bearing on the study of leadership, as it is another map we can layer on to understand why humans think and behave the way they do. Essentially, Peterson describes how \u201cwe compare our interpretation of the world as it unfolds in the present <em>to the desired world, in imagination<\/em>, not to mere expectation; we compare what we have (in interpretation) to what we <em>want<\/em>, rather than to what we merely think <em>will be<\/em>.<a href=\"#_ftn2\" name=\"_ftnref2\">[2]<\/a> The following diagram helps us see this play out: <a href=\"#_ftn3\" name=\"_ftnref3\">[3]<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/1.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-34232 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/1-1024x767.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"767\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/1-1024x767.png 1024w, https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/1-300x225.png 300w, https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/1-768x575.png 768w, https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/1-1536x1150.png 1536w, https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/1-150x112.png 150w, https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/1.png 2012w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h1><strong>Encountering The Unknown<\/strong><\/h1>\n<p>Of the points Peterson makes in <em>Maps of Meaning, <\/em>I was most intrigued by his description of what occurs when the unexpected happens\u2014when there is a \u201cmismatch\u201d between what is and what we thought should be. In these moments, our system is activated in ways that can govern two opposite reactions\u2014fear or hope. The amygdala is activated in the brain and those are two paths we can chose. What Peterson shows is that whether we chose the path of fear or hope is largely dependent on the stories we believe about ourselves and the world. This understanding intersects with my doctoral research project on resilience in several ways as described below.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h1><strong>Responding to Chaos\/Novelty (Stress)<\/strong><\/h1>\n<p>Peterson refers to the state we experience when things don\u2019t go as planned as chaos or novelty. In my portfolio project, I refer to the same basic principle as stress.\u00a0 When we encounter stress, our body naturally wants to go into fight, flight or freeze mode. This is the anxiety path represented below.<a href=\"#_ftn4\" name=\"_ftnref4\">[4]<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/2.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-34233 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/2-1024x767.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"767\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/2-1024x767.png 1024w, https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/2-300x225.png 300w, https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/2-768x575.png 768w, https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/2-1536x1150.png 1536w, https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/2-150x112.png 150w, https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/2.png 2012w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>However, through consciously choosing to believe a different story about the situation and taking embodied action toward the hope path, we can choose a different response than our default stress mode\u2014one that leads to promise and hope. The question is how do we help people believe this different story and learn habits that make choosing the path to hope easier? This is the opportunity I\u2019ve been exploring by studying resilience over the past two and a half years.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h1><strong>Engaging The Left Hemisphere of the Brain Through TWIRL<\/strong><\/h1>\n<p>Peterson explains how the two halves of our brain operate. As seen in the diagram below, the right hemisphere gets engaged when something unexpected happens and tries to make sense of it by going into protection mode (otherwise known as system one processing via Kahneman)<a href=\"#_ftn5\" name=\"_ftnref5\">[5]<\/a>. The problem is that this fires up the FEAR pathway and keeps us stuck. Because resilience is the ability to \u201cbounce back\u201d from stress, we need to purposefully engage the left hemisphere to get us out of the fear track and onto the hope track.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/3-1.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-34235\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/3-1-1024x767.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"767\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/3-1-1024x767.png 1024w, https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/3-1-300x225.png 300w, https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/3-1-768x575.png 768w, https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/3-1-1536x1150.png 1536w, https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/3-1-150x112.png 150w, https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/3-1.png 2012w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>My portfolio project is a workshop designed to teach a technique I designed to do just that by using the acronym TWIRL as a metaphor (story) to teach girls how to TWIRL their way through stress instead of staying in fight, flight or freeze. After learning each step of TWIRL, the girls work through scenario-based videos with their primary female caregiver (PFI) to practice and embody the new story. Interestingly, although I had not read Peterson\u2019s book until now, each step of TWIRL reflects a function of the left hemisphere, which puts the brain back on the road toward hope.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>T:<\/strong> Tell your team<br \/>\n<strong>W:<\/strong> Walk and Talk to God<br \/>\n<strong>I:<\/strong> Indulge in Things That Bring You Joy<br \/>\n<strong>R:<\/strong> Rest<br \/>\n<strong>L:<\/strong> Let Go of the Outcome<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>As I continue to learn more and more about how the body, mind and spirit are connected, I am more hopeful than ever that we can use these concepts to help people learn powerful ways of coping with the chaos of life on this side of heven.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref1\" name=\"_ftn1\">[1]<\/a> Jordan B. Peterson, \u201cMaps of Meaning: The Architecture of Belief\u201d (New York\u202f; Routledge, 1999), 22.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref2\" name=\"_ftn2\">[2]<\/a> Peterson, 28.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref3\" name=\"_ftn3\">[3]<\/a> \u00a0Peterson, 28.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref4\" name=\"_ftn4\">[4]<\/a> Peterson, 44.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref5\" name=\"_ftn5\">[5]<\/a> Daniel Kahneman, \u201cThinking, Fast and Slow\u201d (New York: Farrar, Straus and Giroux, 2013).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In his 1999 academic text Maps of Meaning, professor Jordan Peterson from the University of Toronto, sets out to explore how human beings use story (or myths, as he refers to them) to make decisions, give meaning to their lives, and help them understand their place within culture. \u00a0He states, \u201cIt is therefore the case [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":154,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[1778],"class_list":["post-34231","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-peterson","cohort-dlgp01"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34231","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/154"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=34231"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34231\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":34241,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34231\/revisions\/34241"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=34231"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=34231"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=34231"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}