{"id":30981,"date":"2023-02-10T00:40:38","date_gmt":"2023-02-10T08:40:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/?p=30981"},"modified":"2023-02-10T00:40:38","modified_gmt":"2023-02-10T08:40:38","slug":"slow-fat-brained-or-fast-joyful-brained-christ-followers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/slow-fat-brained-or-fast-joyful-brained-christ-followers\/","title":{"rendered":"Slow Fat Brained or Fast Joyful Brained Christ Followers"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The educator in me has been struggling with church practices that are so focused on the analytical understanding [<a href=\"#_ftn1\" name=\"_ftnref1\">1]<\/a> of the word of God. Even though, most of the churches I have been in talk about the importance of relationships, how they interact with the scripture take the form of an expert talking at the non-experts. My pastor friends know that there needs to be meaningful relationships, so they create small groups or affinity groups around shared interests, but their longevity wanes. In their desperation to find a technic that gets their congregation more involved, they put the scripture on the screen, handout open outlines, all with the hope of achieving transformed lives. In the end, the majority of their congregants have slow fat Christian brains. They know the dos and don\u2019ts. They show up for various events, but few demonstrate deep transformation of character. I began wrestling with this issue in my Discovery Workshop with the exploration of the disconnect between various relationships in the extend church family. Those dedicated stakeholders applied their best analytics on how to create communities of transformation in their churches.<\/p>\r\n<p>Marcus Warner and Jim Wilder, in their book <em>Rare Leadership:4 Uncommon Habits for Increasing Trust, Joy, and Engagement in the People You Lead,<a href=\"#_ftn2\" name=\"_ftnref2\"><strong>[2]<\/strong><\/a><\/em> tackle the challenge of creating relationally connected church communities. This book blends neuroscience, emotional intelligence, and biblical practices [<a href=\"#_ftn3\" name=\"_ftnref3\">3]<\/a> to create a paradigm shift from reason and good choices [<a href=\"#_ftn4\" name=\"_ftnref4\">4]<\/a> to true transformation through identity and belonging.<a href=\"#_ftn5\" name=\"_ftnref5\">[5]<\/a> The authors introduce their model of leadership of \u201cshared joy\u201d as an alternative to \u201cimposed fear.\u201d [<a href=\"#_ftn6\" name=\"_ftnref6\">6]<\/a><\/p>\r\n<p>Chapter one introduction explains the interconnection between fast thinking [<a href=\"#_ftn7\" name=\"_ftnref7\">7]<\/a> and the necessary skills for developing meaningful relationships with those who one leads. The authors give an overview of the characteristics of fast and slow thinking in terms of creating a transformation community. There is an explanation of <em>RARE, <\/em>the four essential habits of a leader<em>: <\/em><\/p>\r\n<ul>\r\n<li>Remain relational.<\/li>\r\n<li>Act like yourself.<\/li>\r\n<li>Return to joy.<\/li>\r\n<li>Endure hardship well. [<a href=\"#_ftn8\" name=\"_ftnref8\">8]<\/a><\/li>\r\n<\/ul>\r\n<p>Chapters two through five details how fast brain relational skills benefit leadership and the consequences when they are taken for granted or ignored. There is an emphasis on leaders being in tune with the identity of both the individual and the group or community they are desiring to create. The authors of this book have tapped into a similar mindset as Bren\u00e9 Brown. <em>Daring Greatly,<a href=\"#_ftn9\" name=\"_ftnref9\"><strong>[<\/strong><\/a><span style=\"color: #0000ee\"><b><u>9]\u00a0<\/u><\/b><\/span><\/em><span style=\"color: #0000ee\"><u>that humanity<\/u><\/span>\u00a0is designed for relationship. Leaders who understand this tacitly are able to create a \u201cpowerful group identity,\u201d [<a href=\"#_ftn10\" name=\"_ftnref10\">10]<\/a> that informs the individuals\u2019 identities.<\/p>\r\n<p>Chapters six through ten is the practical application of the fast-thinking RARE leadership. There is an emphasis on modeling and Imitation in the acquisition of new habits within a relational context. Transformational learning is done in community of \u201callies.\u201d [<a href=\"#_ftn11\" name=\"_ftnref11\">11]<\/a> This is a guilt free zone of sojourners.<\/p>\r\n<p>The final chapter provides the reader with assessment tools to help in creating a plan moving forward.<\/p>\r\n<p>The examples and applications in this book made \u201chelpful connections between emotional intelligence, neuroscience, and leadership,\u201d particularly in relationship to \u201cdeveloping right brain\u201d leadership \u201cskills.\u201d [<a href=\"#_ftn12\" name=\"_ftnref12\">12]<\/a><\/p>\r\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref1\" name=\"_ftn1\">[1]<\/a> Marcus Warner and E. James Wilder, <em>Rare Leadership: 4 Uncommon Habits for Increasing Trust, Joy, and Engagement in the People You Lead<\/em> (Chicago: Moody Publishers, 2016), 44.<\/p>\r\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref2\" name=\"_ftn2\">[2]<\/a> Warner and Wilder, <em>Rare Leadership<\/em>.<\/p>\r\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref3\" name=\"_ftn3\">[3]<\/a> Adam J. Rasmussen, \u201cBook Review: Rare Leadership: 4 Uncommon Habits for Increasing Trust, Joy, and Engagement in the People You Lead,\u201d <em>Christian Education Journal: Research on Educational Ministry<\/em> 14, no. 1 (May 2017): 225, https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1177\/073989131701400128.<\/p>\r\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref4\" name=\"_ftn4\">[4]<\/a> Warner and Wilder, <em>Rare Leadership<\/em>, 44.<\/p>\r\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref5\" name=\"_ftn5\">[5]<\/a> Ibid., 46.<\/p>\r\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref6\" name=\"_ftn6\">[6]<\/a> Rasmussen, \u201cBook Review,\u201d 225.<\/p>\r\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref7\" name=\"_ftn7\">[7]<\/a> Daniel Kahneman, <em>Thinking, Fast and Slow<\/em>, 1st pbk. ed (New York: Farrar, Straus and Giroux, 2013).<\/p>\r\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref8\" name=\"_ftn8\">[8]<\/a> Warner and Wilder, <em>Rare Leadership<\/em>, 25-26.<\/p>\r\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref9\" name=\"_ftn9\">[9]<\/a> Bren\u00e9 Brown, <em>Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead<\/em>, 1st ed (New York, NY: Gotham Books, 2012).<\/p>\r\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref10\" name=\"_ftn10\">[10]<\/a> Warner and Wilder, <em>Rare Leadership<\/em>, 90.<\/p>\r\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref11\" name=\"_ftn11\">[11]<\/a> Ibid., 117.<\/p>\r\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref12\" name=\"_ftn12\">[12]<\/a> Rasmussen, \u201cBook Review,\u201d 228.<\/p>\r\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The educator in me has been struggling with church practices that are so focused on the analytical understanding [1] of the word of God. 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