{"id":30398,"date":"2023-01-27T16:17:41","date_gmt":"2023-01-28T00:17:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/?p=30398"},"modified":"2023-01-27T16:17:41","modified_gmt":"2023-01-28T00:17:41","slug":"whats-that-song-the-second-time-around","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/whats-that-song-the-second-time-around\/","title":{"rendered":"What\u2019s that song? \u2026 The Second Time Around"},"content":{"rendered":"

Anxiety Disorder<\/strong>:<\/p>\n

Separation anxiety<\/strong> (f93.0)<\/p>\n

Developmentally inappropriate and excessive fear or anxiety concerning separation from those to whom the individual is attached.<\/p>\n

Selective mutism<\/strong> (f94.0)<\/p>\n

Consistent failure to speak in specific social situations in which there is an expectation for speaking despite speaking in other situations.<\/p>\n

Specific phobia<\/strong> (f40.248)<\/p>\n

Marked fear or anxiety about a specific object or situation.<\/p>\n

SOCIAL ANXIETY DISORDER<\/strong> (F40.10)<\/p>\n

Marked fear or anxiety about one or more social situations in which the individual is exposed to possible scrutiny by others.<\/p>\n

Panic Disorder<\/strong> (f41.0)<\/p>\n

Recurrent unexpected panic attacks. A panic attack is an abrupt surge of intense fear or intense discomfort that reaches a peak within minutes.<\/p>\n

I spent two years learning that these are some of the individual types of anxiety and criteria that are used to diagnose an individual with anxiety. But not one of these is the inherited anxiety that the author frequently speaks about in his writing. At first glance, the book seemed a bit harsh and out of character for a Christian. But as I reviewed it again, I begin to see some truth in some of his theories.<\/p>\n

I lived 29.5 long years under the roof of my parents. One of my parents is live and let live the other one is what one would call a worry wart. I moved away, but not too far because of the fear and anxiety that my mother had instilled in us throughout the years. From the fear of being fired from your job to the fear of dying if you were adventurous, these all were readily available to my siblings and me daily. I didn\u2019t blame my mother though for her reactions. I knew that she saws us as her precious gifts from God.<\/p>\n

Outside of my mother\u2019s teaching, I have learned that some of what was taught has hindered me. The anxiety that the author describes does creep up in important places and in important decisions. I now question whether it has delayed some of my leadership opportunities. Has that fear stopped me from reaching my greatest potential? And have I overcome or am I still living with those fears? My faith says I cannot miss out on anything that God has for me. My faith also says that my steps are ordered.<\/p>\n

The author would probably answer my questions positively \u201cYES\u201d. Though I would not agree wholeheartedly, I would agree that the character that he is potentially wanting a person to be is not who I want to be. Fear or anxiety may be present at times but in my heart love remains. I am a true believer that sometimes we must put down the statistics of what works and lead with our hearts. I may be failing to thrive in the eyes of some but pleasing God is my greatest desire.<\/p>\n

Friedman, Edwin, and Peter Steinke.\u00a0A Failure of Nerve, Revised Edition: Leadership in the Age of the Quick Fix<\/i>. 10th Anniversary, Church Publishing, 2017.<\/p>\n

Rotta, Wera.\u00a0Desk Reference to the Diagnostic Criteria From DSM-5 by American Psychiatric Association Paperback<\/i>. Independently published, 2022.<\/p>\n

Ibid: pg.115<\/p>\n

Ibid: pg. 116-117<\/p>\n

Ibid: pg. 118<\/p>\n

Ibid: pg. 119<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Anxiety Disorder: Separation anxiety (f93.0) Developmentally inappropriate and excessive fear or anxiety concerning separation from those to whom the individual is attached. Selective mutism (f94.0) Consistent failure to speak in specific social situations in which there is an expectation for speaking despite speaking in other situations. Specific phobia (f40.248) Marked fear or anxiety about a […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":153,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[2309,1],"tags":[2549],"class_list":["post-30398","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-doctor-of-leadership","category-uncategorized","tag-dlgp01-friedman","cohort-dlgp01"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30398","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/153"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30398"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30398\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":30556,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30398\/revisions\/30556"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30398"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30398"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30398"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}