{"id":26242,"date":"2020-03-05T13:50:20","date_gmt":"2020-03-05T21:50:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dminlgp\/?p=26242"},"modified":"2020-03-05T13:50:20","modified_gmt":"2020-03-05T21:50:20","slug":"safety-is-a-seductive-idol","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/safety-is-a-seductive-idol\/","title":{"rendered":"Safety is a Seductive Idol"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Calan (fictitious name) is a very white, very conservative, evangelical-oriented university located in the Pacific Northwest. Historically, they&#8217;ve marketed themselves as a safe university that promotes a \u201cChristian camp\u201d environment and perpetuates a conservative evangelical theology and worldview for its students. Thus, the majority of its student and donor bases come from homeschool or private Christian school backgrounds.<\/p>\n<p>During an Immersion Trip at the US southern border, an adjunct professor from Calan caught a vision for what could happen if they forged a partnership with Global Immersion. In encounter after encounter with the human beings who are caught in the crosshairs of immigration, she discovered the implications of the imperial theology that she had been groomed within.\u00a0 She became convinced of the good news that God is on restorative mission in and through us. She began to see her university as an incubator for next-generation influencers and discovered a deep longing for Calan to move beyond its theological commitment to safety and to realize its destiny as an instrument of peace that forms and releases Jesus-centric peacemakers into every sector of professional life.<\/p>\n<p>The relationship between Global Immersion and Calan began slowly. \u00a0We moved at the pace of trust through a year of strategic conversations, relationship building with key stakeholders, speaking, and guest lecturing. \u00a0Next, we invited the Dean of the School of Education and a couple of hand-selected student leaders to join us for another Immersion Trip. Their experience awakened in them a shared conviction that Calan&#8217;s long term credibility and, ultimately, its future, required the theological, cultural, and practical remaking that our Immersion Trips, workshops, coaching, and consulting could provide.<\/p>\n<p>A few short months later, we took another significant next step forward as we hosted an entire delegation (faculty, staff, and students) from Calan in a third Immersion Trip. \u00a0This one, though, included Calan\u2019s President.<\/p>\n<p>Our relationship pre-dated the immersion, but the experience solidified it. \u00a0While others ate or slept, he and I processed the complexities of immigration that we were observing, our shared mission to form people of faith to join God as peacemakers in the mission of restoration, and the shifting sands of higher education. \u00a0As trust grew, he let me in on the cultural opportunities and obstacles at the university and, together, we began to imagine a future Calan whose reputation was \u201cincubator of a restorative revolution.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>That said, the conversations turned as he revealed that the greatest obstacle to the journey of institutional liberation and renovation was their institutionalized commitment to safety.\u00a0 With humility and no small amount of frustration, he identified \u201csafetyism\u201d as the greatest threat to the academic integrity of the university. In <em>The Coddling of the American Mind<\/em>, Greg Lukianoff and Jonathon Haidt would agree.<\/p>\n<p>Their book was born out of a hypothesis that emerged between the two authors. Wondering about the trends that they were witnessing on university campuses with regard to student demands for censorship, they recognized that \u201cmany university students are learning to think in distorted ways, and this increases their likelihood of becoming fragile, anxious, and easily hurt.\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn1\" name=\"_ftnref1\">[1]<\/a> This hypothesis gave way to an article in the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theatlantic.com\/magazine\/archive\/2015\/09\/the-coddling-of-the-american-mind\/399356\/\">Atlantic<\/a> that, due to its viral popularity, was ultimately fleshed out in book form.<\/p>\n<p>In short, <em>The Coddling of the American Mind<\/em> is a book about why young people feel so anxious; how parents have contributed to an increase in fragility and a decrease in resiliency in their offspring; and how US American Universities are coddling rather than challenging the fragility of the emerging generations. Their best work is the unveiling of the Three Untruths that underlie the phenomenon of safetyism<a href=\"#_ftn2\" name=\"_ftnref2\">[2]<\/a>:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>The Untruth of Fragility<a href=\"#_ftn3\" name=\"_ftnref3\">[3]<\/a> offers the lie that \u201cwhat doesn\u2019t kill you only makes you weaker.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>The Untruth of Emotional Reasoning<a href=\"#_ftn4\" name=\"_ftnref4\">[4]<\/a> says \u201cAlways trust your feelings.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>The Untruth of Us vs. Them<a href=\"#_ftn5\" name=\"_ftnref5\">[5]<\/a> offers the misconception that \u201cLife is a battle between good and evil people.\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn6\" name=\"_ftnref6\">[6]<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Comprehending those Untruths caused a recent experience at Calan to come into focus.<\/p>\n<p>This fall, I was invited to campus for a third time to speak at the student body\u2019s weekly chapel service. Knowing that my theology and style of preaching is a bit edgier than they\u2019re used to, I advised with the President and one of his Deans on the message that I was preparing to give. The passage I had selected was one of the more controversial moments in the life of Jesus. In fact, it\u2019s a moment that portrays Jesus intentionally immersing into what religious wisdom referred to as \u201cenemy territory\u201d that, if stepped within, would contaminate one\u2019s faith and compromise one\u2019s standing with God. Simply put, Jesus transcended religious wisdom and moved beyond the threshold for safety where he was further transformed.<\/p>\n<p>With the green light from the President and Dean, I delivered the message. Upon its conclusion, I was met by three very angry, white eighteen-year-olds who\u2026had a lot to say about how they \u201cfelt\u201d about my message. First, the message had made them feel very uncomfortable (See Untruth Number Two).\u00a0 Second, I was identified as \u201cone of those preachers\u201d who talks about justice rather than Jesus (See Untruth Number Three) and was, therefore, a \u201cdangerous heretic\u201d (See Untruth Number One) who they hoped would never be invited back to campus.<\/p>\n<p>In conversation with Lukianoff and Haidt, let\u2019s analyze their feedback within the context of \u201csafetyism.\u201d\u00a0 First, their defensive approach signals something of what they believe about difference: within the paradigm of safetyism, different means dangerous. That is, \u201cdifferent\u201d is not understood as an opportunity to grow or expand or lean in with humble curiosity.\u00a0 Instead, it is perceived as a contaminate, a threat, that must be resisted lest it leads to one\u2019s ruin (Untruth Number One).<\/p>\n<p>Second, the immediacy of their heated presence upon the completion of the chapel service indicates that they did not have the tools to recognize that they were escalated and likely incapable of constructive, civil discourse. Rather than asking themselves, \u201cWhy am I escalated and what does it say about me?\u201d they resorted to the response of safetyism: \u201cI\u2019m escalated because of him and he needs to know that what he did was wrong\u201d (Untruth Number Two).<\/p>\n<p>Third, they were quick to identify and draw boundaries around two different types of preachers.\u00a0 The \u201cUs\u201d preacher was the one who \u201ctalks about Jesus.\u201d\u00a0 The \u201cThem\u201d preacher, of which I was seemingly identified as, was the one who \u201ctalks about justice.\u201d The former was very obviously portrayed as good and preferable and the later as evil and to be dismissed. For the record, the entire talk was centered exclusively on Jesus.<\/p>\n<p>If Lukianoff and Haidt assess the general disposition of students on top tier campuses as fragile, anxious, and easily hurt, it makes me wonder what they would say of students who inhabit US American Christian Universities. My encounter at Calan, interpreted alongside <em>Coddling<\/em> also leads me to wonder at how White American Evangelical theology is contributing to a dangerous intellectual fragility that is accelerating xenophobia and racism within the movement.<\/p>\n<p>While I appreciate Lukianoff and Haidt\u2019s six recommendations on how parents and educators could produce wiser children<a href=\"#_ftn7\" name=\"_ftnref7\">[7]<\/a>, the fact of the matter is, these fragile, anxious young people are already inhabiting our campuses and work force.\u00a0 So for those of us who are currently working with the young, coddled minds, let me offer these six suggestions:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Hold space for them to be anxious and fragile for that is what they are.<\/li>\n<li>Metabolize their energy and, in so doing, disarm their anxiety.<\/li>\n<li>Affirm their courage in voicing their anxiety and fragility.<\/li>\n<li>Check their disrespect when it manifests and encourage civility.<\/li>\n<li>Teach self-awareness by asking them to invest as much energy getting curious with themselves as they are protecting their fragility.<\/li>\n<li>Follow up in order to provide space for them to voice their new discoveries.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>~~<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref1\" name=\"_ftn1\">[1]<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/heterodoxacademy.org\/coddling-of-the-american-mind\/\"><em>https:\/\/heterodoxacademy.org\/coddling-of-the-american-mind\/<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref2\" name=\"_ftn2\">[2]<\/a> Jonathan Haidt and Greg Lukianoff, <em>The Coddling of the American Mind, <\/em>New York: Penguin Books (2018), 29.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref3\" name=\"_ftn3\">[3]<\/a> See also Robin DiAngelo\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/White-Fragility-People-About-Racism\/dp\/0807047414\/ref=sr_1_1?crid=32BT8JQY2GHFR&amp;keywords=white+fragility+robin+diangelo&amp;qid=1583444172&amp;sprefix=white+frag%2Caps%2C205&amp;sr=8-1\">White Fragility: What it\u2019s so Hard for White People to Talk About Racism<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref4\" name=\"_ftn4\">[4]<\/a> In addition to Haidt\u2019s The Righteous Mind, Psychologist, Dr. Leon Seltzer reflects <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/evolution-the-self\/200808\/trust-your-feelings-maybe-not\">HERE<\/a> on the danger of trusting one\u2019s feelings.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref5\" name=\"_ftn5\">[5]<\/a> Listen <a href=\"https:\/\/www.trcnyc.org\/bsag-3-03\/\">HERE<\/a> as Brian McLaren talks about a God who transcends Us vs. Them<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref6\" name=\"_ftn6\">[6]<\/a> Haidt &amp; Lukianoff, 3.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref7\" name=\"_ftn7\">[7]<\/a> See Haidt &amp; Lukianoff, Chapter 12.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Calan (fictitious name) is a very white, very conservative, evangelical-oriented university located in the Pacific Northwest. 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