{"id":232,"date":"2014-03-13T23:47:23","date_gmt":"2014-03-13T23:47:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/beta.dminlgp.com\/?p=232"},"modified":"2014-08-11T22:28:54","modified_gmt":"2014-08-11T22:28:54","slug":"thats-why-i-bought-elevator-shoes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.georgefox.edu\/dlgp\/thats-why-i-bought-elevator-shoes\/","title":{"rendered":"That&#8217;s Why I Bought Elevator Shoes!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>MaryKate Morse in her fascinating book <em>Making Room For Leadership<\/em> sates that Jesus was very ordinary from a physical and perceived stance and that he was a minimalist, but he changed the world.\u00a0 At least as ordinary, I\u2019m in good company!<\/p>\n<p>For six years I worked in Marketing and Sales for a company in Kansas.\u00a0 I oversaw the international division, therefore traveled often, primarily to the developing countries of Latin America.\u00a0 It was a time that I felt the power of influence.\u00a0 According to Morse, being male, middle-aged, married and educated should have been an adequate beginning to hold power within the group of leaders and managers I dealt with regularly.\u00a0 But in addition, since I was from North America, although not personally well to do financially, I was perceived as one of wealth and with my company behind me, I even held positional power.<\/p>\n<p>I enjoyed that inflated sense of self until the company restructured and I was reassigned to become one of three national accounts managers \u2013 the other two being sons of the owner.<\/p>\n<p>Suddenly my power of influence changed radically.\u00a0 My position was diminished as many wanted to work with the owner\u2019s sons.\u00a0 Now I was a middle class worker, dealing many times with people richer, more powerful and more educated than myself \u2013 and taller!\u00a0 Being short hadn\u2019t been an issue in Latin America where I seemed of average stature, but now I was not the one people admired as I walked into a room.\u00a0 So I bought elevator shoes!\u00a0 From research, I knew that America would never elect a president less than six feet tall and that over a lifetime, each inch of height, for a man, adds roughly $100,000.\u00a0 So, elevator shoes it was!<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/31.media.tumblr.com\/436f8cc156ad7bdc20078a07ef775846\/tumblr_inline_n2efc1VfL01rsqmkf.jpg\" alt=\"\" \/><\/p>\n<p>But Morse also speaks of leadership and power as constituted within groups and that body cues and instinctual decisions can play a part since authentic leadership is a group sport rather than an individual practice.\u00a0 As leaders, she points out that although temptations are great and abundant, we should still strive for power and capacity for influence to be a true servant leader.\u00a0 We too, are reminded that those with power can and need to speak for those without.\u00a0 So beside elevator shoes, how does one accomplish this?<\/p>\n<p>Morse takes us through an explanation of different types of possible spaces and how to define our space in productive ways.\u00a0 There is tension with this attitude, as an outgrowth of Christianity is many times the opposite (unless you are one of the stars of the \u201cPreachers of LA\u201d \u2013 then you have to dominate spaces).\u00a0 A great example is the young Pakistani lady, Malala.\u00a0 By all accounts she shouldn\u2019t dominate space or exercise power, but her presence is incredibly powerful and strong \u2013 it goes beyond conventional wisdom.<\/p>\n<p>As I read this book I continually thought of body language and externals since I\u2019m just a normal, ordinary type of fellow, imagining in my mind a picture of myself, taller, richer, better looking etc. \u00a0However, she ends the book talking of inner preparedness.\u00a0 As I reflect on my influence or lack of it in meetings and with \u201cbig space\u201d people, I saw my shortcoming and covenanted to renew times of open spaces for my personal inner preparedness before meetings and gatherings.\u00a0 I\u2019ll ask the \u201cwhys\u201d and focus attention on the viscerals that can be changed \u2013 leaving my elevator shoes at home in the closet, remembering that \u201cpower used poorly is sinful.\u201d (p.33)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>MaryKate Morse in her fascinating book Making Room For Leadership sates that Jesus was very ordinary from a physical and perceived stance and that he was a minimalist, but he changed the world.\u00a0 At least as ordinary, I\u2019m in good company! 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