Who Cares About Professional Etiquette?
April 20th, 2012I try to remember when I first learned etiquette and 4-H comes to mind immediately. I remember learning how to greet people, how to introduce myself and basically conduct myself in an appropriate manner. Who knows, I might have learned some of this in church and school also and I suspect many of you learned some basics at the dinner table in your youth. I guess learning to be proper and respectful was part of our upbringing.
Why would my 4-H leaders and other adults in my life think it was valuable to learn these things? I think they knew-and I didn’t-that learning etiquette would teach us how to relate and interact appropriately in the world around us. It would win us high marks as we ventured out toward success. Were they right? It seems so, as etiquette has once again resurfaced as a popular topic in our professional culture. There appears to be a growing industry built around it today with trainers being certified across the nation to help us ”get manners” once again. Along with this, the business world is expressing the need for professional behaviors in the workplace.
Eliza Browning in her article says, The 5 Etiquette Rules That Matter Today, “Boil it down and etiquette is really all about making people feel good. It’s not about rules or telling people what to do, or not to do, it’s about ensuring some basic social comforts.” http://www.inc.com/eliza-browning/business-etiquette-rules-that-matter-now.html
Small things are important especially in making first impressions with employers. Our office brings the etiquette dinner to you each year in the spring, hoping to engage you in a process of learning that which is expected, but many times unlearned. How is your handshake, how do you make conversation, how do you follow up an interview, how do you show deference to someone in a superior position to you, how do you use your knife and fork at a business meal…? The questions are many and we encourage you to be involved with this, gaining confidence in your manners and initial presentation. Does this just happen naturally? I wouldn’t bank my future on it , so get yourself tuned up in the world of etiquette. We have resources in our office to help with this such as Power Etiquette and The Guide to Business Etiquette. Come by the first floor of Stevens and we’ll check your handshake.







